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Divorce may not have been in your future plans but sometimes things don't work out the way we thought. Of course, it's a difficult time but with good friends and family surrounding you, you'll get through it. One increasingly common trend that's started in recent years is divorce parties. Rather than seeing divorce as the end of a chapter people are focussing on the positives; the new chapter about to begin.
Being ready to celebrate moving forward probably won't happen overnight but down the line, as time heals, you may want to gather your support system for somewhat of a party. Here's the low down on divorce parties and how to kickstart your new adventure.
A relatively new concept, divorce parties are becoming a big deal, and we say, why not? If it makes you happy, you should celebrate it, right?
For some, getting a divorce is often one of the hardest things to go through, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a light at the end of the tunnel. Once all of the legalities are out of the way and you and your former spouse are totally separated, it’s time to focus on the new. Once you feel you’re mentally ready for it, a divorce party is a great way to set your new life up with positive vibes and give you hope that the next chapter will be a great one.
This could prove to be a tricky one, especially if you and your former spouse have a lot of mutual friends. One thing that is clear though, is that whoever was there with you through the hard times, should definitely be standing beside you as you celebrate.
A divorce party doesn’t have to be a huge, extravagant affair either (unless you want it to be, of course!). The main focus should always be about moving forward, so think about who it is you want to take with you on the next leg of your journey. It’s probably best to avoid those that have a negative opinion about your split.
This really does come down to you. If you have a favourite spot that has lots of fond memories for you and your nearest and dearest, then that could be a great place to start. If you’d prefer something a little closer to home, then a house party could be the answer.
If you’ve moved into a new place after your separation, you could consider this a kind of housewarming party too. Having a divorce party at home is also likely to be a cheaper option and gives you the chance to really kick back and relax with your loved ones should you wish to.
It’s all about having a good time, so why not set yourself up with some of the cheesiest party tunes available? Embrace life and blast out some serious ballads over karaoke… drink in hand of course!
Don’t be afraid to break out the prosecco or champagne, you are celebrating after all! If they aren’t really for you, why not try your hand at cocktail making? If you really want to push the boat out and add a touch of luxury, hire some waiters to serve them.
Sticking with cocktails, why not go all out with a cocktail party? Throw on your best party dress (or suit!) and enjoy getting glammed up after what would have been a very testing time. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to look your best after feeling at your worst!
If you want to make things absolutely explicit that you’re no longer married, why not hold a ring funeral? All done in jest of course, but hugely symbolic nonetheless. Say goodbye to your wedding ring and never look back!
The party is really depdendent on the host, their tastes and how they are feeling. There's nothing wrong with a pj party, ice cream and watching soppy movies. But there's also nothing wrong with painting the tiles red. If you're planning a party for yourself or your friend, arrange whatever will make them feel better.
If you’ve been invited to a divorce party, you’ll likely want to take a gift with you. It doesn’t have to be huge but you want it to mean something. As the party signifies the start of something new and exciting, your gift should reflect that. But keep it personal too, it’s likely the person who’s divorce party it is, is one of your closest friends or relatives, so there’s no excuse for generic gifts! You wouldn't go far wrong with experiences and gift vouchers too, a pamper session or makeover could be the perfect gift.
This entirely depends on the nature of the party. The best thing to do is to ask the host what their intentions are, what they have planned and if there are any special requirements. If they plan to have the divorce party at home, it’s likely that something a little more casual will suffice. Going out could be a little more tricky so it’s important you get a feel for what’s likely to go down, first.
Divorce parties are designed to be a significant stepping stone on to pastures new. Making sure that you have the best time possible is absolutely key, so give yourself some time to make sure you’re ready for it. When you are, surround yourself with those that love you the most and enjoy the new phase that’s waiting for you.
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